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Why do men sexually abuse and harass women? And how can we stop it?

Dear John,

We know it isn’t all men, but can you help my husband and me understand the type of man who exposes himself to women in a work setting, grabs women aggressively, drugs or threatens women or girls who are looking to them as mentors, etc.? Where do you think this behavior comes from? And do you believe there is any chance of these situations being stopped? [Read more…]

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What are your thoughts on males who behave like females?

Dear John,

I’m an extremely effeminate (not to the point of transgenderism) homosexual man, and I was wondering: What are your thoughts on males who behave like females (wearing make-up, into fashion, etc.)? Sometimes, I feel that God does not like the way I am. So would you say I should change, even though this comes naturally for me? [Read more…]

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“Should I have a threesome with my husband and his friend?”

Dear John,

I’m not sure if this is the type of question you’d normally answer, but I figured I had to ask. [Read more…]

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Should I break up with the man I love because he’s an alcoholic?

Dear John,

I wanted to ask your opinion on being in a relationship with an alcoholic. I fell in love with a man before realizing that’s what he is. Now, because of his drinking, I am about ready to move on. He is a good man: generous, kind, creative, industrious, open, encouraging, never critical or harsh to me. Except for his prodigious alcohol consumption, he also takes good care of himself. [Read more…]

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“Mom was fine with me being gay. Then her Christianity kicked in.

Dear John:

I was raised a Baptist and consider myself very spiritual and close to God. I always knew I was “different” but didn’t fully understand that difference until I got older. I am now 26 and came out to my mother about 10 days ago. [Read more…]

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